Wednesday, 22 November 2017

Fashionista Mom

ENG: As you already know it, I'm a mother for more than a year. But that does not keep me out of fashion or blogging. However, my main job is being a mom and I take care of my daughter 24 out of 24, and when it's possible I try to make time for myself and for the blog, also.

   I have read articles about mothers who care less than they did before and all sorts of advice to them. Indeed, time is short and very limited in this period, but if you wish it, you can make time for yourself, too. I did not read an article about fashionistas mothers, like me :)). Because it looks like I'm not the only one. 

There is a conception out there that, after becoming a mother, you have to change things, including clothing. For example, if you have a child, you should not wear a short skirt. An obsolete and very limited conception, of course. People are still judging, and some ideas may be conceived from generation to generation.

  A mother needs to feel primarily a woman, even though for the rest of the time, 99% of her time is just a mother. Every mother needs to take his energy dose and load his batteries somehow. The art of living means discovering the miracle in everyday life. Life is beautiful if we see it beautiful! And if only we make it beautiful!


 RO: Dupa cum stiti si voi, sunt mama de mai mult de un an. Dar asta nu ma tine departe nici de moda, nici de blog. Cu toate ca, principala meserie a mea este cea de mama si ma ocup de fiica mea 24 din 24, incerc sa imi fac timp, cand se poate si pentru blog si pentru mine, inclusiv.

   Am tot citit articole despre mame care se ingrijesc mai putin decat o faceau inainte si tot felul de sfaturi la adresa lor. Intr-adevar timpul e scurt si foarte limitat in aceasta perioada dar daca iti doresti iti poti face timp si pentru tine. Nu am citit insa un articol despre mamele fashioniste, asa ca mine :)). Pentru ca se pare ca nu sunt singura. 

Exista conceptia aceasta ca dupa ce ai devenit mama, trebuie sa schimbi unele lucruri, inclusiv vestimentatia. De exemplu, daca ai un copil trebuie sa nu mai porti fusta scurta. O conceptie invechita si foarte limitata, bineinteles. Oamenii inca mai judeca si unele conceptii dainuiesc poate din generatie in generatie. 

  O mama, are nevoie sa se simta in primul rand femeie, chiar daca in restul timpului in proportie de 99% din timp este doar mama. Fiecare mama trebuie sa isi ia doza de energie si sa isi incarce bateriile cumva. Arta de a trai inseamna descoperirea miracolului in viata cotidiana. Viata este frumoasa, daca o vedem frumoasa! Si doar daca ne-o facem frumoasa!

 Photo Source: Pinterest

PS: One day you will see similar photos with me and my daughter, too :)

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