Monday, 30 October 2017

Introspection


ENG: Today I do not feel the need to do anything, I want to stay all day and read a book, a magazine, to drink black and bitter coffee, warm, under the smoothest blanket.
  After a strong and still untreated cold, I managed to make a post, because it was really the time. I feel the need to gather and put together all desires, aspirations - a moment of introspection. What is more important than your own happiness?


 We often forget about us, trying to do things well and thank the others. Forget about us and make decisions in our deface, in order to please others. Because we are raised, educated, or we are just asked. We sometimes feel more important contributing in some way in the lives of others. Or sometimes just accept in order to be accepted. And I know you understand me what I mean because it happened to you too.

 Please understand that we are our first and foremost priority. When someone asks for help or a favor, take a break and do not rush to say yes! There are other possibilities of response: "I will think about it", "I will see what I can do". And first of all, think for a moment if it's worth the effort or there is enough time for that. Think about things like this: the more you do for others, the less you do for yourself! Do not try to thank everyone, try to thank yourself and the people who really matter in your life!



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RO: Astazi nu simt nevoia sa fac nimic, as vrea sa stau toata ziua si sa citesc o carte, o revista, sa beau o cafea neagra si amaruie, la caldura, sub cea mai pufoasa patura. 
  Dupa o raceala puternica si inca nevindecata, am reusit sa fac o postare, caci era si timpul. Simt nevoia sa ma adun si sa pun cap la cap toate dorintele, aspiratiile - un moment de introspectie. Caci ce e mai important decat fericirea proprie?

 De multe ori uitam de noi, incercand sa facem lucrurile bine si sa ii multumim pe ceilalti. Uitam de noi si luam decizii in defavorea noastra, pentru a-i multumi pe ceilalti. Pentru ca asa suntem crescuti, educati sau asa ni se cere. Sau ne simtim mai importanti contribuind in vreun fel in viata celorlati. Ori pentru a fi acceptati. Si stiu ca ma intelegi ce spun pentru ca ti s-a intamplat si tie. 

 A se intelege ca suntem prima si cea mai importanta prioritate a noastra. Cand cineva va cere ajutorul sau o favoare, luati-va o pauza si nu va grabiti sa spuneti : da! Exista si alte posibilitati de raspuns:" ma voi gandi la asta", "voi vedea ce pot face". Si mai intai de toate, gandeste-te un moment daca merita efortul sau este timp pentru asta. Gandeste lucurile asa: cu cat faci mai multe pentru ceilalti, cu atat faci mai putin pentru tine! Nu incerca sa ii multumesti pe toti, incearca sa te multumesti pe tine si persoanele care cu adevarat conteaza in viata ta! 






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